***Stimulus STIMULATION Tuesday***
Good Evening, Fellow Ho’s!!!
Some of you have outreached to inquire about the semen retention tantric technique that my husband took upon himself to tryout in parallel to this Ho 30 challenge. Honestly, I had no idea that he had plans of doing this, until after about the third romp session and I was like, “uhhh, are you good… you haven’t been finishing”, (although, I could tell he was into it). Anyway, he explained that he was trying out something new – mind you, we typically do tantric sex most times ever since we stumbled upon it about 8 years ago, but it was usually just for the one encounter or over a weekends time, so this was new to me.
Below is his response to me, based on his experience and hope it answers some of your questions. If you care to inquire more, then don’t hesitate to ask.
“Tantric techniques
I have been working on developing techniques for maximizing time in the bed. I’ve noticed as I get older, it takes me longer to recover from ejaculation, and I get frustrated if I finish while planning on having a longer or more intimate evening. However, I also feel like I’ve gained more control over time, focusing on experiencing rather than the “goal” of getting done. I did some reading and watched some videos about this, and learned I was just barely achieving what ancient writings discussed.
Tantric and Daoist leaders talked about separating orgasms from ejaculation, so that men can experience multiple orgasms, like women can as well. The main techniques discussed really controlling breathing, to help slow things down and remain controlled. Breathing through the nose instead of mouth can help with this. Practicing your own responses through self stimulation is helpful, to know when you’re getting close without tipping over. Essentially, how far and how often can you go without going past the point of no return. This is called edging, and alone can prolong a pleasurable experience. Also, Kegel exercises are good for more advanced work, to not just delay but actually hold back to achieve a full body orgasm without “finishing”. Squeezing down, like stopping the flow of urine, is the goal here.
The idea for doing all this is to remain able to perform, and actually feel energized, rather than spent and exhausted after ejaculating. People discussed going over a month or longer like this- I’m not that good yet, and think 21 days was too difficult to really maintain effectively, but I’m also thinking more practice can only help! One of the great things about Ho 30 is knowing you’ll always have more chances to work on your game, and develop more abilities and techniques.”
https://www.nateliason.com/blog/multiple-orgasms-men
Podcast: Orgasmic Enlightenment
Happy reading and stimulation… practice makes orgasmic!!!
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