~Happy HUMP Day~
Round 2 | Day 11
🍑: 7 (the return of Aunt Flo… she’s the worstđź‘ą) 🍆: 0 (he’s back at it again, so we’ll see how it goes this time around, i.e. tantric technique)
⚖️Weight Loss: still just the 9lbs. from last month
đź’śConnection Level: We continue to do well. It is interesting that while we connect more frequently on an intimate level, we are diving into a lot more marital stuff too. Definitely not what either of us expected, but necessary nonetheless. I guess with great intimacy comes deeper communication.
What can I say, I am a sucker for a good romantic comedy – the cliches, the good and bad, I’ll always find a morsel of something meaningful while watching. Besides, sitting down to watch something mindless and lighthearted is always good for the soul.
One movie that I have always been fond of is 40 Days and 40 Nights. From the title, you can guess that it has a religious component to it. Essentially, it’s about a guy who is quite promiscuous and realizing that he never has deep connection with women. At some point, he decides to seek spiritual help and gives up intimacy in every way imaginable with extreme abstinence, no touching for over a month.
Scene from 40 Days and 40 Nights
There is something that can be pretty exciting about having things intentionally off limits in the bedroom and exploring ways to stimulate one another without physical touch. What sensations do you experience and what can you incorporate when no touch is involved?
I challenge you to tap into your other senses outside of touch… and discover, are your other senses heightened?!? Do different textures caressed along your body feel more sensitive in certain areas?!? What goes through your mind when different temperatures are introduced… tracing your body with an ice cube, pouring oil on your crevices or turning up the heat with some candle wax along your curves. The possibilities are endless…
Challenge:
Explore this idea, delaying the gratification of the ultimate goal and see what happens. Can you hold off, get out of your head and enjoy the many sensations?!? What is something new that you discover?!? Are you feeling a deeper connection with yourself or with your mate?!? How long can you keep from giving in?!? Is the build even more intense and do you feel flooded with more awareness to sensitivity?!?
Share below your favorite movie love scene. Maybe revisit watching and reenacting it. Be your own leading lady!!!đź’‹
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