Thinking Off

I had the most MIND BLOWING experience and since we have this platform to share and talk about different practices, I would not be a good Ho-friend if I kept this to myself. I literally had NO IDEA what had happened or even how to really describe it, until the next day when I started researching the different sensations that I felt and came across it…

“Thinking Off”… who knew this was a thing!?!

So, I was getting ready for bed and sometimes for my husband and I, if we want to express our interest in connecting throughout the night, typically give each other a heads up along the lines of, “If you are interested in getting frisky in the night, I am up for it”. Anyway, my husband had grown exhausted from several nights of tossing and turning or waking up before the alarm clock, so he mentioned in passing that he wanted to sleep in, so I made a mental note, not to bother him in the night. Apparently, that was the permission that I needed to have stumbled upon one of the most exhilarating things I have ever experienced!!!

I was not quite ready for bed and instead of doing my usual thing of getting up and heading to the living room to watch mindless television and ultimately fall asleep on the couch, I chose to read and watch videos with my headphones on. I added some new Ho 30 topics to my running list, (yes ladies, I plan to make this an ongoing discussion group, so settle in for the long haul). Before I knew it, my mind began to wander and next thing I know, I was having a full-on orgasmic experience!!! There was no touching or pleasuring of any type… I simply allowed myself to think intimate and intense thoughts, I even found myself drift into a light sleep of sorts and awoke again to an orgasm. I found myself strictly focusing on my breathing, clearing my mind and noticing the different sensations along every inch of my body, until I became fixated and obsessing over my own vagina… believe me, I know it sounds oddly wild.

It was like this exciting little secret, but at the same time, wanted to experience it with my husband, as I was not even sure what was happening to me. So, somewhat reluctantly, I woke him up and whispered how turned on I was, which awakened him enough to get in on the action and pleasure me for what was next… achieving a blended orgasm from different areas from in and around my vagina. Once the feelings subsided, I found myself asleep and woke up several hours later, being awakened by this same sensation and followed by waking up my husband for yet again, another double pleasure. This happened 3 times in the night, each time more explosive with the assisted bonus orgasm!!!

Again, I had no idea what I had fully experienced, but was so intrigued to know and learn more. So, in the morning once I was fully awake, my husband was on edge and wanting to know what happened. I mentioned to him that I didn’t really know. He shared with me that it was noticeably different, by being “demonstratively more aroused”, (his words) and a much different… wetness. The sensations I felt were like my whole body felt light, carefree, and aroused all over.

The following afternoon, I found myself enthralled, so I finally gathered up the courage to look up what I experienced. Believe me, these searches were random, so you are welcome to not have to see what I did to come to this result. It was honestly quite hard to find. So, I will share some links and you can learn more about it.

I have since tried to recreate that experience, but it felt a little too forced. Since it was something I was able to get my mind to do on its own, I was then getting in my own head and frustrated with how long it was taking and if I was doing it right. My husband being awake and observing what it would be like to see it happen in the moment was also challenging.

Should you choose to try and experience this yourself, please do not put pressure on yourself, you will only end up more frustrated. Truly, give yourself plenty of uninterrupted time, focusing intently on your breathing and the wave of sensations cascading up, over, and throughout your body.

Give it a try and get off on yourself!!! Just like the old saying goes, if at first you don’t succeed, try again and again and again… you and the experience are worth it!!!💋

Baraba Carellas is a pioneer on this subject, check out this video as she demonstrates this technique: How to Have a Breath and Energy Orgasm

Barry Komisaruk, the author of the Orgasm Answer Guide also provides some details around Thinking Off. Here is a link to his video Thinking Yourself to Orgasm

Here are a few articles to check out as well on the subject:

Orgasm Just by Thinking: Is It Medically Possible?

Thinking Yourself to Orgasm Can Boost Feelings of Well-Being

Here’s How to Give Yourself an Orgasm Using Only Your Mind

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