The Doctor is in the Building…

Hello everyone! Welcome to our page!!!  For several months now, my wife Regina has been hosting a private group on Facebook, discussing relationships and topics of sex. Throughout this time, she and I have discussed the idea of creating a couples blog together, sharing our story along with helpful tips and communication techniques that we have developed and still work on frequently.

We think these topics are important and healthy for singles and couples alike, who are craving resources when troubleshooting intimacy issues. We know there are so many books on the market and specialists focused on these topics, but these matters are often thought of as taboo, so why not show our more vulnerable side – if it can help someone else, then all the better for everyone!!!

Welcome to this NOW public forum!!! We envision Ho 30 as a healthy relationship blog, where we talk about our relationship and, while the topic of sex is intriguing, we also focus on how the emphasis on intimacy and connection is the the key piece to a fulfilling relationship. Similar to other trendy challenges, our belief is that this challenge extends beyond a single category, as it takes into account eating well, keeping healthy in order to maintain stamina, and being disciplined in our schedules, in order to prioritize and make time to connect with commitment to different forms of intimacy every day.

That’s what we hope to discuss here – finding room in your life, along with your relationship, to prioritize efforts for increased pleasure.  Unlike other websites we have seen, the focus is not entirely on sexual positions and challenges.  While we welcome that, and have seen our frequency of intercourse increase with our dedication to making it happen, we’ve also had great nights of snuggling, making out, and making time for each other that has been vital to our improved marriage and exciting lives.  We have a marriage to brag about! We want you and what you are choosing to experience to make others envious too!

Of course, this means putting in effort in areas of your life and relationships that have probably been ignored or taken for granted.  It also means confronting the things that may have contributed to reduced connection in the first place.  These matters are important for having that stellar relationship and attention you miss and maybe even crave.  Working through the “stuff” is hard. But it also fosters confidence in yourself to build intimacy. This increased positive viewpoint works for resolving what kept you distracted or distant, which allows for a fresh beginning, yearning for what you felt when you were first learning about your mate. 

We hope to create a community here where love, sex, and relationships are given the attention and focus they deserve. We hope to also have your participation and feedback with what has worked historically, what is going well currently, and any additional perspectives on making our lives more full of excitement and passion.💋

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